Today we learned that Drummage's mother passed away earlier in the day. It was about a year ago that he lost his father. On the 19th, Drum will have his 38th birthday and it is almost unfathomable to think he has lost both his parents at such a young age. What do you say to a friend who is grieving the loss of his mother and perhaps was still grieving the loss of his father a year ago? More often than not, it's more about what you do than it is about what you say. Outside of scripture there just aren't words that make a difference in a situation like this one. Thankfully, we have scripture to lean on and learn from in moments like these. I'm reminded of John 11:35, famously known as the shortest verse in the Bible: "Jesus wept". It's a cute trivia fact that it's the shortest verse in the Bible but I'm afraid we miss the point. In this story, Jesus learned of the loss of Lazarus and went to be with Mary and Martha and the key to verse 35 is found in verse 33:
The purpose of this blog is to write an online letter for our daughter which will be compiled into a book to be printed and provided to her during her 18th birthday. It's intended to share with her our heart about how we feel about her, some of the highlights of this milestone year, and to provide a collection of loving and affirming statements validating who she already knows she is in Christ!
Jesus wept
Today we learned that Drummage's mother passed away earlier in the day. It was about a year ago that he lost his father. On the 19th, Drum will have his 38th birthday and it is almost unfathomable to think he has lost both his parents at such a young age. What do you say to a friend who is grieving the loss of his mother and perhaps was still grieving the loss of his father a year ago? More often than not, it's more about what you do than it is about what you say. Outside of scripture there just aren't words that make a difference in a situation like this one. Thankfully, we have scripture to lean on and learn from in moments like these. I'm reminded of John 11:35, famously known as the shortest verse in the Bible: "Jesus wept". It's a cute trivia fact that it's the shortest verse in the Bible but I'm afraid we miss the point. In this story, Jesus learned of the loss of Lazarus and went to be with Mary and Martha and the key to verse 35 is found in verse 33:
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